Thursday, September 25, 2014

Pope Francis acts quickly to Remove Bishop accused of Protecing Pedophile Priest

Fresh off the press
Bishop covered up priest accused of pedophilia in the USA; is also conservatively divisive

Pope removes bishop of Ciudad del Este, Paraguay

Statue of St. Peter in front of the Vatican Basilica
25/09/2014
(Vatican Radio) Pope Francis has decided to remove the Bishop of Ciudad del Este, Rogelio Ricardo Livieres Plano.
Below please find a Vatican Radio translation of the official Holy See statement:
After a careful examination of the findings of the Apostolic Visitations made ​​to the Bishop, dioceses and seminaries of Ciudad del Este, by the Congregation for Bishops and the Congregation for the Clergy, the Holy Father has proceeded with the replacement of Bishop Rogelio Ricardo Livieres Plano. He has appointed Ricardo Jorge Valenzuela Ríos, Bishop of Villarrica del Espíritu Santo, as Apostolic Adminostrator of the now vacant diocese.
The grave decision taken by the Holy See, under the weight of serious pastoral concerns, is for the greater good and unity of the Church of Ciudad del Este and episcopal communion in Paraguay.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Fr. Maciel Maciel, Traumatizing Narcissist?

 

 

 

 

 

 It is not enough to hate or forget Maciel, or simply write him off: we must understand the damage, what he did to all those he came in contact with,  and heal from it -heal ourselves. Otherwise, we will limp through life...

 

 

Traumatic Narcissism: Relational Systems of Subjugation

 

"the kind of narcissist who controls and exploits others, inflating himself by deflating those he surrounds himself with. ...he needs others desperately, but he disavows dependency, which he views as weak and shameful. He needs to lure others into becoming dependent on him, which then allows him to persist in his delusion that only others are needy, not himself. ...Dependency and shame are repugnant weaknesses in his eyes, problems for his inferior followers, not for superior him..."



Thus begins the latest book by psychiatrist Daniel Shaw who has been practicing in the NY/NJ area for decades and has treated many former members of harmful groups and relationships.

For years Dan has been fascinated by the series of gurus that have paraded before his eyes as they were described by his patients. He wondered whether there was a common element.

This blogger used "Psychopath" to describe Maciel in the book he wrote. Juan Jose Vaca, a victim, considers Maciel a "Malignant Narcissist".

Reading Shaw's books has been a gripping experience for one who knew Fr. Maciel beyond his large group performances...And for one who has witnessed his destruction first hand in his own life and in the lives of many companions. Maciel's victims will understand their abuse better by reading certain parts of this clinical psychology book, particularly chapters:

1. The Relationality of Narcissim (what it is)
3. Traumatic Narcissism in Cults, and
6. "But what do I do": Finding the Path to Freedom.

I am grateful to Daniel Shaw for his clinical studies, insights and description of this "phenomenon":  people who are not only Narcissists but who somehow are also capable of doing a lot of harm to those who come in contact with them, be it fleetingly or on a long term basis.  It is not enough to hate or forget Maciel: we must understand the damage, what he did to all those he came in contact with,  and heal from it -heal ourselves. Otherwise, we will limp through life.

The unfortunate result of contact with this kind of person is Trauma. The blogger believes that anyone who has been a member of the Legion of Christ or Regnum Christi, Maciel's creations, should not dismiss the need for psychotherapy, self help together with brotherly support and caring to heal from our wounds.

A question looms for us, former members, and for all concerned parents, Catholics, Christians and people of good will as to whether Fr. Maciel, the Traumatizing Narcissist, has created a Traumatizing Narcissistic System which is perpetuated in LC/RC training, life, groups, schools and organizations. 

Can we hope that priests, bishops and the Roman Curia authorities get the message that there is a cost to the Legion of Christ's "success"? The cost being trauma: lives, families and society harmed, sometimes destroyed, in the name of God, Christ and Catholic Church.

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Australian former Premier Slams Catholic Church response to Child Abuse

Former New South Wales Premier Barry O'Farrell scathing of the Catholic Church's response to child sexual abuse

O'Farrell slams Catholic Church response to Hunter region child abuse

The former New South Wales premier Barry O'Farrell has hit out at the Catholic Church for failing to act on allegations of child sexual abuse within the Hunter Region.
Last night's comments made in State Parliament were in response to the report handed down by the Special Commission of Inquiry, set up to investigate the diocese.
It found that senior Catholics failed to report abuse by former priests Denis McAlinden and James Fletcher, who are both now dead.
Mr O'Farrell says he was motivated to establish the inquiry after seeing ABC reports in 2012 and wanted to see those who abused children brought to justice.
This is behaviour...which I find abominable and frankly unchristian when found amongst so-called men of the cloth. 
Former NSW Premier, Barry O'Farrell

He singled out five key figures who failed to act on the allegations and criticised cover-ups made by the church.
"This is behaviour which would be inexcusable and unacceptable to anyone," he said.
"Which I find unbelievable, abominable and frankly unchristian when found amongst so-called men of the cloth."
Mr O'Farrell described the church's inaction on dealing with the allegations as criminal.
"This criminal inaction was never justifiable to avoid a church scandal," he said.
"The inquiry reminds us that during a period of inaction by the diocese, McAlinden continued to abuse children in the late 1970s, 80s and into the 1990s."

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Another Pedophile Priest on the Loose!

Due to negligence by Church authorities another sex abusing priest is on the loose; the kind that likes adolescents. Once again its the "priest is more important than adolescents" principle...and we have seen how disastrous that was with Marcial Maciel...

A very devout priest:

Priest Carlos Urrutigoity kisses the feet of the faithful.
Fr. U kissing the feet of the faithful...

Bishops from Switzerland to Scranton warn that he's a threat to youths. GlobalPost finds Carlos Urrutigoity leading Mass in a remote South American church, where young seminarians are enthralled and critics are alarmed.



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CIUDAD DEL ESTE, Paraguay — A hush falls across the church, broken only by the rhythmic swish of the censer as it bestows acrid incense across the faces of the congregation.
A gaggle of monks in brown habits, their heads tonsured in repentant horseshoes, rises and begins to chant. They are joined by seminarians — priests in training — in floor-length, black soutanes, and Latin liturgy pulses over the pews. The words rise to a massive floor-to-ceiling mural that casts dozens of saintly eyes across the room.

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Wednesday, April 30, 2014

El Ilusionista, Marcial Maciel, latest book (in Spanish) by Alejandro Espinso about his uncle, Fr. Marcial Maciel



A new improved version of Alejandro Espinosa's latest book, The Illusionist, Marcial Maciel, has just appeared in book form and Kindle on Amazon.


Una delicia de leer, a pesar de materia escabrosa y picara....

Le deseamos mucho exito a este nuevo intento de desenmascarar al gran Impostor


Friday, April 18, 2014

Charges: Minister sexually abused young 'Maidens' in Minnesota camp for years

 

Charges: Minister sexually abused young 'Maidens' in Minnesota camp for years

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·         Article by: PAM LOUWAGIE, JENNA ROSS and PAUL WALSH , Star Tribune 
·         April 15, 2014
Minister is charged with sexually abusing girls at Minnesota camp.
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FINLAYSON, Minn. - Lindsay Tornambe was just 13 years old when she was chosen to be “sacrificed to God,” she remembers.
That announcement in July 2000 came from a minister who led an insular faith community that included her family in central Minnesota. As Tornambe sat in the congregation with her parents, she remembers the minister calling out a list of 10 girls for a position of honor. He would later call them “maidens.”
Soon, her parents dutifully dropped her off at his isolated camp, where what she now calls a nightmare of sexual abuse went on for about nine years.
Pine County authorities announced Tuesday that the minister, 52-year-old Victor A. Barnard, is now facing 59 counts of first-degree criminal sexual conduct involving his chosen maidens.
Barnard ruled “like a rock star” over the camp and sexually exploited girls and young women at his whim while they lived apart from their families, according to court papers, which spell out the alleged abuses against two unnamed teens.
Barnard had not been apprehended Tuesday evening but was believed to be in Washington state, where authorities have begun a manhunt for him. He is the subject of a nationwide warrant.
Pine County Chief Sheriff’s Deputy Steven Blackwell said Tuesday that the 59 counts address only the alleged rapes of the two women who have so far spoken to law officers and that he is confident Barnard has more victims.
“We are hoping to find more that are willing to come forward,” Blackwell said. “I don’t know how we couldn’t think that” there are more girls and women abused in Barnard’s “secret little world,” he added.
The criminal complaint lays out the experiences of two of the girls, now women and identified in the document as “B” and “C.” Tornambe, who is now living in the Washington, D.C., area, confirmed in a phone interview Tuesday that she is one of the girls described in the charges, which she hasn’t seen.
She said she was relieved to hear that Barnard is facing charges. “To know that they actually care, that people actually do care about what happened means so much,” she said.
The Maidens Group
Tornambe said she first met Barnard when she was 9. Living in Pennsylvania, her parents had been following his ministry and home schooling their children. The family visited Minnesota a lot, she said, and eventually moved to join the congregation near Finlayson when she was 11.
They lived and worked there and had little contact with the outside world, she said.
It became clear sometime after her name was called at the meeting with the congregation that her move to live with Barnard was intended to be permanent. “My parents dropped me off July 23, 2000,” Tornambe said. “Victor had us celebrate it every year, it was like our anniversary.”
Within about a month of the move, she said, Barnard talked to her about sex. He used terms she didn’t understand, and he grew angry about it, thinking she was lying about not understanding. She said he raped her for the first time then and continued sexually assaulting her over the course of nine years. The frequency varied from about once a month to about five times a month, she said.
“If I wasn’t being spiritual or following his orders, he wouldn’t have sex with us,” she said. “If we were doing well, it was almost like he rewarded us.” She rarely saw her parents, though they lived only about 5 miles away, she said.
The complaint says that females ages 12 to 24 were in the Maidens Group and that Barnard would preach to them about giving themselves to God and never marrying. They were sometimes called “Alamoth,” a biblical word referencing virginity, the document says. Barnard taught the girls that he represented Jesus and that he had left his wife and children to live on camp property, telling the larger congregation that the move was so he could dedicate himself to God.
Tornambe said she tried to leave the group once, when she was 15. Barnard took back a ring, a veil and other gifts he had given her before she went home to her parents, she said, and her mother cried for a week with disappointment. When Barnard called clergy members, the maidens and their parents together for a meeting shortly afterward, he talked about damnation from God. Fearful, Tornambe went back with Barnard.
“I was really scared, and I didn’t know what receiving damnation from God would be like,” she said. “I ended up just staying.”
Robbed of childhood
On a rural dirt road 5 miles southwest of Finlayson, the Salvation Army now runs the Northwoods Camp, a rustic collection of century-old cabins and newer buildings. When this property was owned by the River Road Fellowship, which included about 150 people, it was home to “Shepherd’s Camp,” where Barnard brought his maidens. He lived in the camp’s “lodge” and would call for one girl or another “when he wanted to have sexual intercourse with her,” the charges say.
According to the complaint, “B” told authorities that Barnard explained that Jesus had Mary Magdalene and other women as followers and that King Solomon had many concubines, adding that “God’s word” made having sex with him normal. She told authorities that Barnard warned her not to tell anyone about the sex, that he would hit her when angered and that other girls were called “to see Barnard in the same manner,” according to court documents.
A few years later, Tornambe said, she left permanently. She had traveled to Brazil with another one of the maidens who was originally from that country, and she decided there that she wanted out of the religion. When she came back to the United States, the group had moved to Washington state, she said. She went to live with her parents, who had by then moved to Pennsylvania. They still had pictures of Barnard in their house, she said, and continued to send money to him.
She stopped going to church, she said, and started to adapt to the outside world that was foreign from the insular one where she had grown up.
“I didn’t know anything. We made all our own clothes. I didn’t know anything about the Internet or cellphones,” she said. She took jobs working at a health club and waitressing, eventually becoming a nanny.
After ringing in 2012 at a New Year’s party with cousins who happily talked about their futures, she decided she’d been robbed of too much of her childhood. That week, she called authorities to tell her story.
Another victim
The criminal complaint details the story of another girl, called “C,” that is similar to Tornambe’s.
C said her abuse began in 2000, when she was 12. She lived with nine other girls and also rarely saw her family. C said Barnard also told her that the sex was ordained by God.
In February 2001, Barnard, C and her parents met. He told her family that he might have sex with her, even though that had already been occurring.
That month, C was part of a ceremony that Barnard called the “Salt Covenant,” a pledge by the girls to remain unmarried and loyal to Barnard until death.
C also said a calendar was kept in the kitchen that chronicled when the other girls would have sex with Barnard, though all the while the girls would never speak to one another about what was happening.
C separated from the group several times in June 2008 until leaving for good and moving to Wisconsin in September 2009. She became depressed and attempted suicide in 2011. Her brother, also formerly part of the fellowship, confronted her. She then told him about the abuse.
Community on its own
The story of both girls, told in the charges, has rocked the normally quiet community near Minnesota’s eastern border.
From his carefully kept house, Jay Gault would sometimes see women and girls across the dirt road, in the camp property’s woods, tapping trees for maple syrup.
But when he would go get his mail, they would scatter, said Gault, 61. “They’d go back in the woods. They wouldn’t look at you.”
In an area where drivers wave when passing one another, neighbors noticed that the people at the camp “kept to themselves,” as several put it.
Dick Bowser, who recently retired from East Central Energy, said the church wouldn’t let power company or fire department employees on the property — “and when they did let you in, they watched you very closely.”
“It was strange,” Bowser said.
The men sometimes left to do carpentry or construction work, but “you didn’t see the women very much,” he said. Bowser, 60, lives down the road, but even from that distance, he’d hear them, faintly, chanting and singing.
Then, a few years ago, the camp cleared out. Gault noticed that businesses affiliated with the congregation — a construction company among them — suddenly closed, as well. Then word came about the alleged sexual abuse. “It’s been the buzz around here,” Gault said, shaking his head.
“I didn’t expect it to be anything good that was going on down there,” Bowser said. “But I certainly didn’t expect what it’s looking like it’s turning out to be.”
Worried for her sisters
Now 27, Tornambe said life is still an adjustment.
The criminal complaints say that Pine County sheriff’s investigator Matt Ludwig told “B’s” parents about the abuse in June 2012 and that her mother “did not want to hear it.”
Her father agreed to speak with Ludwig, explaining that he allowed his daughter to live away from them because she seemed happy.
He described the “atmosphere in the congregation and said it is a very powerful force to face the idea of losing everything — family, home, friends, businesshttp://images.intellitxt.com/ast/adTypes/icon1.png and being cast out of the church — if you do not go along with what Barnard wants you to do,” according to the charges.
B’s father recalled Barnard coming to him and rationalizing his having sex with the girls. The father “felt pressured to not say anything,” the complaint continued. “[The father] said he did not know what he was thinking at the time but just remembers feeling so much pressure to not become an outcast and lose everything he had.”
Tornambe has had bouts of depression where she considered suicide, she said. She physically hurt herself, she said, feeling that actual pain was better than trying to confront her emotional pain.
“For so many years it seemed like I’d never have the chance to … even know who I was … we didn’t really have a chance to think for ourselves,” she said. “We were told what time to get up, what time to go to bed, what we were eating, when we were going to sew.”
Tornambe decided to speak out publicly, she said, to try to stop Barnard. Her mother and two sisters are still involved with him, she said. She hopes telling her story will help other victims, too, she said.
“I definitely don’t want Victor hurting anyone else.”

Thursday, October 31, 2013

Victim of Anglican Priest rejects Payout

Just to see what happens in 'other denominations' re clergy abuse. A BBC article

Robert ColesVictim of sex-abuse priest Robert Coles rejects payout


Robert Coles is serving an eight-year prison sentence

A man who was sexually abused as a boy by a Church of England priest has rejected a six-figure compensation offer.
The man, who cannot be identified, was one of a number of boys abused by Robert Coles when he was a priest in Horsham and Chichester, in Sussex.
Coles, of Upperton Road, Eastbourne, was jailed for eight years in February after admitting 11 sex abuse charges.
The victim, now 45, says he wants a sum "in proportion" to his suffering.
'Archbishop appalled'
He told the BBC: "I've been sectioned, I've self-harmed. I've tried to end my life.
"Numerous times I've been in intensive care."
The man, who said he had reported the abuse to Sussex Police in 1997, says he is prepared to go to court to get the compensation he believes he deserves.
"It needs to be in proportion to what I've suffered," he said.
The Diocese of Chichester said it hoped it would avoid going to court over the case, but could not discuss details of this compensation claim.
After Coles's sentencing, the Archbishop of Canterbury Justin Welby apologised to the victims, saying he was "appalled" by the case.
He said systems designed to protect survivors had "clearly failed".
Brighton Crown Court heard in February that Coles had disclosed he was a child sex abuser to senior clergy, including the then Bishop of Lewes, the Rt Rev Wallace Benn, but the information was not passed on to police.