A short book containing the Blogger's Correspondence with R.J. Neuhaus following his "Feathers of Scandal" defense of Fr. Marcial Maciel, Founder of the Legion of Christ, accused of sexual abuse of his seminarians; together with subsequent revelations, the author's analysis and recent Vatican actions; Pope Benedict on Maciel in "Light of the World", Psychological Profile of Maciel as Psychopath Guru
Friday, November 28, 2014
The Resistence of the Bishops of Ireland to Investigate Clergy Sex Abuse - Mary Mc Aleese, former President of Ireland
A recnt address given by the former President of the Republic of Ireland, Northern Irish Catholic Mary Mc Aleese where she speaks of a senior Irish cleric who went to her for advice re the clergy abuse scandal but would not hear of a Church Investigation!
Here is a link to the audio
Remember Sex Abuse in the Legion of Christ described by author in
Marcial Maceil, Pedophile, Psychopath and Founder of the Legion of Christi
on Amazon & Kindle
http://www.amazon.es/Marcial-Pedophile-Psychopath-Founder-Benedict-ebook/dp/B009ZKEA2A/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&sr=&qid=
and what he described in his memoir,
Our Father Maciel, who art in bed, A Naive and Sentimental Dubliner in the Legion of Christ
written before Maciel died and the whole truth about him was revealed.
http://www.amazon.com/Father-Maciel-Sentimental-Dubliner-Legion-ebook/dp/B00519TUQU/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&sr=1-1&qid=1411163955
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Head of Jesuits defends New Vatican Sex Crimes Prosecutor
Top US Jesuit defends Vatican sex prosecutor
By NICOLE WINFIELD
Associated Press VATICAN CITY (AP) - The head of the Jesuits in the United States defended the Vatican's new sex crimes prosecutor Tuesday, saying he had virtually no role in the order's handling of a notorious pedophile now serving a 25-year prison sentence.
The Rev. Timothy Kesicki, president of the U.S. Jesuit Conference, spoke to The Associated Press after The Boston Globe reported that the prosecutor, the Rev. Robert Geisinger, failed to report the abuser to police when he was the second
-ranking official in the Jesuits' Chicago province in .....
Associated Press VATICAN CITY (AP) - The head of the Jesuits in the United States defended the Vatican's new sex crimes prosecutor Tuesday, saying he had virtually no role in the order's handling of a notorious pedophile now serving a 25-year prison sentence.
The Rev. Timothy Kesicki, president of the U.S. Jesuit Conference, spoke to The Associated Press after The Boston Globe reported that the prosecutor, the Rev. Robert Geisinger, failed to report the abuser to police when he was the second
-ranking official in the Jesuits' Chicago province in .....
Tuesday, November 25, 2014
Two American Priest to Vatican Protection of Minors
Pope appoints two US priests to help tackle sexual abuse of minors
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Fr. Robert Oliver in February 2013 in Rome (CNS/Paul Haring)
The pope named U.S. Fr. Robert Oliver to be the new secretary of the Pontifical Commission for the Protection of Minors,
and appointed Jesuit Fr. Robert Geisinger to replace Oliver as the promoter of justice at the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith -- the Vatican's chief prosecutor of sex abuse crimes.
The Vatican made the announcement Wednesday.
Oliver fills a new full-time position of secretary for the pontifical commission, which Pope Francis established in December.
A Vatican source told Catholic News Service there would be another announcement "soon" of more new members to be added to the commission, as it aims to expand the number of representatives from around the world, especially from Africa and Asia.
The commission, which currently has eight members, including a survivor of clerical sexual abuse, mental health professionals and experts in civil and church law, is tasked with laying out a pastoral approach to helping victims and preventing abuse.
The pope has said he wants the commission to help the church develop better policies and procedures for protecting minors.
Oliver, a Boston priest and canon lawyer, worked on the abuse crisis in the church in his home archdiocese and at the Vatican as the promoter of justice since his appointment there in February 2013.
As secretary of the Vatican commission on protecting minors, the priest again will be assisting Cardinal Sean O'Malley of Boston, the head of the commission.
Before he was appointed to the Vatican, Oliver had served as a judge and promoter of justice in Boston tribunals and as a consultant to the Boston archdiocesan review board, a body that advises O'Malley in assessing accusations of child sexual abuse by members of the clergy and in determining the suitability of an accused priest for ministry.
Born in New York in 1960, he was ordained to the priesthood for the Boston archdiocese in 2000 and is a member of the Brotherhood of Hope. He earned his doctorate in canon law from The Catholic University of America and a doctorate in theology from the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome. He has served as a judge, taught, developed policy and offered counsel as a canonical adviser.
Geisinger will replace Oliver as promoter of justice in the doctrinal congregation -- a position similar to a prosecuting attorney in a civil court. The position also involves monitoring the procedures that national bishops' conferences have in place for dealing with abuse accusations and handling the dismissal from the priesthood of those guilty of sexual abuse.
A member of the Chicago-Detroit Province, the Jesuit priest has been serving in Rome since 2001 as general procurator for the Society of Jesus -- the chief in-house canonical adviser to the Jesuit superior general in Rome.
Born in Parma, Ohio, in 1958, Geisinger received degrees in English literature, philosophy, canon law and a master of divinity degree.
He has a background in teaching and he worked as associate chancellor of the Chicago archdiocese and as a presiding judge on the archdiocese's metropolitan tribunal.
He also once worked as a news director of a radio station in Nome, Alaska, before he entered the Society of Jesus in 1981. In the 1970s, he worked as an assistant manager of Chicago's Granada Theater.
Tuesday, November 11, 2014
O'Reilly Sentence in Chile - Two or three sides of the coin
First off, the sentence is similar to Fr Maciel' Vatican sentence in 2006 = after all the investigations and testimonies he is guilty but there are attenuating circumstances; let's give him a slap on the hand.
Secondly, if he is guilty he deserves a harsher sentence;
If he is not guilty he deserves to be free.
Seems that the message the justice system in Chile is giving us that:
- Fr. O'Reilly, it seems, is kind of guilty...not sure
- he is guilty = keep him away from children
- he is guilty, but maybe it was not all that bad...
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- What about the child and her family:
- if they made it up why did they put their daughters through such distress
- If their daughters were really abused by Fr. O'Reilly, how distraught they must be; after all the money they spent(?)to try to get justice for their daughters.
- If the parents made it up, where did this hatred against Fr. O'Reilly spring from?
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guilty kind of,
probation,
sentence,
slap on the hand
Tuesday, October 28, 2014
How did Fr. Maciel get off so lightly for his Sexual Abuse?
see this latest news item re how Vatican has laicized 3 priests for sexual abuse of minors
The short answer to the question above: because he had friends in high places, namely Cardinal Angelo Sodano, Vatican Sec of State.
Also because Pope JPII handlers et al, "wanted to spare him the stress" of knowing that one of the people he admired was a pedophile and a fraud
"The Vatican permanently removed three priests in the Archdiocese of Cincinnati Tuesday due to allegations of improper behavior involving minors.
Three priests- Thomas Kuhn, Thomas Feldhaus, and Ronald Cooper have been permanently removed from both the rights and the obligations of the priesthood after a canonical process. The decisions were made by a panel of three judges in another diocese and affirmed by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith (CDF) at the Vatican.The canonical process is described on the Archdiocese's website.
“I hope that this resolution will bring some measure of closure and healing to anyone harmed by these priests,” said the Most Reverend Dennis M. Schnurr, Archbishop of Cincinnati, in a news release. “With this decision, all of the cases presented to the CDF have been dealt with and we have no more priests of the Archdiocese on administrative leave...."
Monday, October 20, 2014
Fr. O'Reilly, Dublin-born, the brood of Fr. Maciel?
Dear Readers,
Irish Mirror, recently published an article re the conviction of Legionary of Christ, Fr. John O'Reilly in Chile.
A Chilean blog claims that Fr. O'Reilly was whisked out of Ireland in 85 because of similar problems. The blogger knows this to have been a favorite Maciel-Legion strategy but cannot vow this was the case with Fr. John without further corroboration.
Irish-born priest John O'Reilly guilty of child sexual abuse in Chile
- By Rosalba O'Brien, Antonio de la Jara
The court found that O'Reilly, who moved to Chile from Ireland in 1985, had abused a pre-teen girl at a religious school in Santiago
TDTV
John O'Reilly
The court found that John O'Reilly, who moved to Chile from Ireland in 1985, had abused the pre-teen girl behind closed doors at the private Colegio Cumbres in the affluent neighborhood of Las Condes between 2007 and 2009.
"The tribunal has established beyond all reasonable doubt that ... O'Reilly resolved to carry out actions of a sexual nature via body contact with a school student," said Judge Maria Teresa Barrientos.
O'Reilly, who denied the charges, will be sentenced next month.
Prosecutors have requested that he be sent to prison for 10 years.
The school where the abuse took place is part of the network of the Legionaries of Christ, a conservative religious order whose founder was revealed to be a fraud and pedophile who had fathered several children.
The Catholic church retains a strong influence in conservative Chile, but cases like this of abuse and other crimes by priests have shaken confidence in recent years.
In 2011, powerful priest Fernando Karadima was found guilty by the Vatican of abusing teenage boys over many years.
The criminal case against him collapsed and the church ordered him to live a life of prayer and banned him fro
Thursday, September 25, 2014
Pope Francis acts quickly to Remove Bishop accused of Protecing Pedophile Priest
Fresh off the press
Bishop covered up priest accused of pedophilia in the USA; is also conservatively divisive
(Vatican Radio) Pope Francis has decided to remove the Bishop of Ciudad del Este, Rogelio Ricardo Livieres Plano.
Below please find a Vatican Radio translation of the official Holy See statement:
After a careful examination of the findings of the Apostolic Visitations made to the Bishop, dioceses and seminaries of Ciudad del Este, by the Congregation for Bishops and the Congregation for the Clergy, the Holy Father has proceeded with the replacement of Bishop Rogelio Ricardo Livieres Plano. He has appointed Ricardo Jorge Valenzuela RÃos, Bishop of Villarrica del EspÃritu Santo, as Apostolic Adminostrator of the now vacant diocese.
The grave decision taken by the Holy See, under the weight of serious pastoral concerns, is for the greater good and unity of the Church of Ciudad del Este and episcopal communion in Paraguay.
Bishop covered up priest accused of pedophilia in the USA; is also conservatively divisive
Pope removes bishop of Ciudad del Este, Paraguay
Below please find a Vatican Radio translation of the official Holy See statement:
After a careful examination of the findings of the Apostolic Visitations made to the Bishop, dioceses and seminaries of Ciudad del Este, by the Congregation for Bishops and the Congregation for the Clergy, the Holy Father has proceeded with the replacement of Bishop Rogelio Ricardo Livieres Plano. He has appointed Ricardo Jorge Valenzuela RÃos, Bishop of Villarrica del EspÃritu Santo, as Apostolic Adminostrator of the now vacant diocese.
The grave decision taken by the Holy See, under the weight of serious pastoral concerns, is for the greater good and unity of the Church of Ciudad del Este and episcopal communion in Paraguay.
Tuesday, July 15, 2014
Fr. Maciel Maciel, Traumatizing Narcissist?
It is not enough to hate or forget Maciel, or simply write him off: we must understand the damage, what he did to all those he came in contact with, and heal from it -heal ourselves. Otherwise, we will limp through life...
Traumatic Narcissism: Relational Systems of Subjugation
"the kind of narcissist who controls and exploits others, inflating himself by deflating those he surrounds himself with. ...he needs others desperately, but he disavows dependency, which he views as weak and shameful. He needs to lure others into becoming dependent on him, which then allows him to persist in his delusion that only others are needy, not himself. ...Dependency and shame are repugnant weaknesses in his eyes, problems for his inferior followers, not for superior him..."
Thus begins the latest book by psychiatrist Daniel Shaw who has been practicing in the NY/NJ area for decades and has treated many former members of harmful groups and relationships.
For years Dan has been fascinated by the series of gurus that have paraded before his eyes as they were described by his patients. He wondered whether there was a common element.
This blogger used "Psychopath" to describe Maciel in the book he wrote. Juan Jose Vaca, a victim, considers Maciel a "Malignant Narcissist".
Reading Shaw's books has been a gripping experience for one who knew Fr. Maciel beyond his large group performances...And for one who has witnessed his destruction first hand in his own life and in the lives of many companions. Maciel's victims will understand their abuse better by reading certain parts of this clinical psychology book, particularly chapters:
1. The Relationality of Narcissim (what it is)
3. Traumatic Narcissism in Cults, and
6. "But what do I do": Finding the Path to Freedom.
I am grateful to Daniel Shaw for his clinical studies, insights and description of this "phenomenon": people who are not only Narcissists but who somehow are also capable of doing a lot of harm to those who come in contact with them, be it fleetingly or on a long term basis. It is not enough to hate or forget Maciel: we must understand the damage, what he did to all those he came in contact with, and heal from it -heal ourselves. Otherwise, we will limp through life.
The unfortunate result of contact with this kind of person is Trauma. The blogger believes that anyone who has been a member of the Legion of Christ or Regnum Christi, Maciel's creations, should not dismiss the need for psychotherapy, self help together with brotherly support and caring to heal from our wounds.
A question looms for us, former members, and for all concerned parents, Catholics, Christians and people of good will as to whether Fr. Maciel, the Traumatizing Narcissist, has created a Traumatizing Narcissistic System which is perpetuated in LC/RC training, life, groups, schools and organizations.
Can we hope that priests, bishops and the Roman Curia authorities get the message that there is a cost to the Legion of Christ's "success"? The cost being trauma: lives, families and society harmed, sometimes destroyed, in the name of God, Christ and Catholic Church.
Wednesday, June 18, 2014
Australian former Premier Slams Catholic Church response to Child Abuse
O'Farrell slams Catholic Church response to Hunter region child abuse
The former New South Wales premier Barry O'Farrell has
hit out at the Catholic Church for failing to act on allegations of
child sexual abuse within the Hunter Region.
Last night's comments
made in State Parliament were in response to the report handed down by
the Special Commission of Inquiry, set up to investigate the diocese.It found that senior Catholics failed to report abuse by former priests Denis McAlinden and James Fletcher, who are both now dead.
Mr O'Farrell says he was motivated to establish the inquiry after seeing ABC reports in 2012 and wanted to see those who abused children brought to justice.
This is behaviour...which I find abominable and frankly unchristian when found amongst so-called men of the cloth.
Former NSW Premier, Barry O'Farrell
He singled out five key figures who failed to act on the allegations and criticised cover-ups made by the church.
"This is behaviour which would be inexcusable and unacceptable to anyone," he said.
"Which I find unbelievable, abominable and frankly unchristian when found amongst so-called men of the cloth."
Mr O'Farrell described the church's inaction on dealing with the allegations as criminal.
"This criminal inaction was never justifiable to avoid a church scandal," he said.
"The inquiry reminds us that during a period of inaction by the diocese, McAlinden continued to abuse children in the late 1970s, 80s and into the 1990s."
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
Another Pedophile Priest on the Loose!
Due to negligence by Church authorities another sex abusing priest is on the loose; the kind that likes adolescents. Once again its the "priest is more important than adolescents" principle...and we have seen how disastrous that was with Marcial Maciel...
A very devout priest:
Fr. U kissing the feet of the faithful...
A very devout priest:
Fr. U kissing the feet of the faithful...
Bishops from Switzerland to Scranton warn that
he's a threat to youths. GlobalPost finds Carlos Urrutigoity leading
Mass in a remote South American church, where young seminarians are
enthralled and critics are alarmed.
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CIUDAD DEL ESTE, Paraguay — A hush falls across the
church, broken only by the rhythmic swish of the censer as it bestows
acrid incense across the faces of the congregation.
A gaggle of monks in brown habits, their heads tonsured in
repentant horseshoes, rises and begins to chant. They are joined by
seminarians — priests in training — in floor-length, black soutanes, and
Latin liturgy pulses over the pews. The words rise to a massive
floor-to-ceiling mural that casts dozens of saintly eyes across the
room.
See more at
Bishops from Switzerland to Scranton warn that
he's a threat to youths. GlobalPost finds Carlos Urrutigoity leading
Mass in a remote South American church, where young seminarians are
enthralled and critics are alarmed.
Bishops from Switzerland to Scranton warn that
he's a threat to youths. GlobalPost finds Carlos Urrutigoity leading
Mass in a remote South American church, where young seminarians are
enthralled and critics are alarmed.
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A gaggle of monks in brown habits, their heads tonsured in repentant horseshoes, rises and begins to chant. They are joined by seminarians — priests in training — in floor-length, black soutanes, and Latin liturgy pulses over the pews. The words rise to a massive floor-to-ceiling mural that casts dozens of saintly eyes across the room.
See more at
Wednesday, April 30, 2014
El Ilusionista, Marcial Maciel, latest book (in Spanish) by Alejandro Espinso about his uncle, Fr. Marcial Maciel
A new improved version of Alejandro Espinosa's latest book, The Illusionist, Marcial Maciel, has just appeared in book form and Kindle on Amazon.
Una delicia de leer, a pesar de materia escabrosa y picara....
Le deseamos mucho exito a este nuevo intento de desenmascarar al gran Impostor
Friday, April 18, 2014
Charges: Minister sexually abused young 'Maidens' in Minnesota camp for years
Charges: Minister sexually abused young 'Maidens' in Minnesota camp for years
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· Article by: PAM LOUWAGIE, JENNA ROSS and PAUL WALSH , Star Tribune
· April 15, 2014
Minister is charged with sexually abusing girls at Minnesota camp.
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FINLAYSON, Minn. - Lindsay Tornambe was just 13 years old when she was chosen to be “sacrificed to God,” she remembers.
That
announcement in July 2000 came from a minister who led an insular faith
community that included her family in central Minnesota. As Tornambe
sat in the congregation with her parents, she remembers the minister
calling out a list of 10 girls for a position of honor. He would later
call them “maidens.”
Soon,
her parents dutifully dropped her off at his isolated camp, where what
she now calls a nightmare of sexual abuse went on for about nine years.
Pine
County authorities announced Tuesday that the minister, 52-year-old
Victor A. Barnard, is now facing 59 counts of first-degree criminal
sexual conduct involving his chosen maidens.
Barnard
ruled “like a rock star” over the camp and sexually exploited girls and
young women at his whim while they lived apart from their families,
according to court papers, which spell out the alleged abuses against
two unnamed teens.
Barnard
had not been apprehended Tuesday evening but was believed to be in
Washington state, where authorities have begun a manhunt for him. He is
the subject of a nationwide warrant.
Pine
County Chief Sheriff’s Deputy Steven Blackwell said Tuesday that the 59
counts address only the alleged rapes of the two women who have so far
spoken to law officers and that he is confident Barnard has more
victims.
“We
are hoping to find more that are willing to come forward,” Blackwell
said. “I don’t know how we couldn’t think that” there are more girls and
women abused in Barnard’s “secret little world,” he added.
The
criminal complaint lays out the experiences of two of the girls, now
women and identified in the document as “B” and “C.” Tornambe, who is
now living in the Washington, D.C., area, confirmed in a phone interview
Tuesday that she is one of the girls described in the charges, which
she hasn’t seen.
She
said she was relieved to hear that Barnard is facing charges. “To know
that they actually care, that people actually do care about what
happened means so much,” she said.
The Maidens Group
Tornambe
said she first met Barnard when she was 9. Living in Pennsylvania, her
parents had been following his ministry and home schooling their
children. The family visited Minnesota a lot, she said, and eventually
moved to join the congregation near Finlayson when she was 11.
They lived and worked there and had little contact with the outside world, she said.
It
became clear sometime after her name was called at the meeting with the
congregation that her move to live with Barnard was intended to be
permanent. “My parents dropped me off July 23, 2000,” Tornambe said.
“Victor had us celebrate it every year, it was like our anniversary.”
Within
about a month of the move, she said, Barnard talked to her about sex.
He used terms she didn’t understand, and he grew angry about it,
thinking she was lying about not understanding. She said he raped her
for the first time then and continued sexually assaulting her over the
course of nine years. The frequency varied from about once a month to
about five times a month, she said.
“If
I wasn’t being spiritual or following his orders, he wouldn’t have sex
with us,” she said. “If we were doing well, it was almost like he
rewarded us.” She rarely saw her parents, though they lived only about 5
miles away, she said.
The
complaint says that females ages 12 to 24 were in the Maidens Group and
that Barnard would preach to them about giving themselves to God and
never marrying. They were sometimes called “Alamoth,” a biblical word
referencing virginity, the document says. Barnard taught the girls that
he represented Jesus and that he had left his wife and children to live
on camp property, telling the larger congregation that the move was so
he could dedicate himself to God.
Tornambe
said she tried to leave the group once, when she was 15. Barnard took
back a ring, a veil and other gifts he had given her before she went
home to her parents, she said, and her mother cried for a week with
disappointment. When Barnard called clergy members, the maidens and
their parents together for a meeting shortly afterward, he talked about
damnation from God. Fearful, Tornambe went back with Barnard.
“I was really scared, and I didn’t know what receiving damnation from God would be like,” she said. “I ended up just staying.”
Robbed of childhood
On
a rural dirt road 5 miles southwest of Finlayson, the Salvation Army
now runs the Northwoods Camp, a rustic collection of century-old cabins
and newer buildings. When this property was owned by the River Road
Fellowship, which included about 150 people, it was home to “Shepherd’s
Camp,” where Barnard brought his maidens. He lived in the camp’s “lodge”
and would call for one girl or another “when he wanted to have sexual
intercourse with her,” the charges say.
According
to the complaint, “B” told authorities that Barnard explained that
Jesus had Mary Magdalene and other women as followers and that King
Solomon had many concubines, adding that “God’s word” made having sex
with him normal. She told authorities that Barnard warned her not to
tell anyone about the sex, that he would hit her when angered and that
other girls were called “to see Barnard in the same manner,” according
to court documents.
A
few years later, Tornambe said, she left permanently. She had traveled
to Brazil with another one of the maidens who was originally from that
country, and she decided there that she wanted out of the religion. When
she came back to the United States, the group had moved to Washington
state, she said. She went to live with her parents, who had by then
moved to Pennsylvania. They still had pictures of Barnard in their
house, she said, and continued to send money to him.
She
stopped going to church, she said, and started to adapt to the outside
world that was foreign from the insular one where she had grown up.
“I
didn’t know anything. We made all our own clothes. I didn’t know
anything about the Internet or cellphones,” she said. She took jobs
working at a health club and waitressing, eventually becoming a nanny.
After
ringing in 2012 at a New Year’s party with cousins who happily talked
about their futures, she decided she’d been robbed of too much of her
childhood. That week, she called authorities to tell her story.
Another victim
The criminal complaint details the story of another girl, called “C,” that is similar to Tornambe’s.
C
said her abuse began in 2000, when she was 12. She lived with nine
other girls and also rarely saw her family. C said Barnard also told her
that the sex was ordained by God.
In
February 2001, Barnard, C and her parents met. He told her family that
he might have sex with her, even though that had already been occurring.
That
month, C was part of a ceremony that Barnard called the “Salt
Covenant,” a pledge by the girls to remain unmarried and loyal to
Barnard until death.
C
also said a calendar was kept in the kitchen that chronicled when the
other girls would have sex with Barnard, though all the while the girls
would never speak to one another about what was happening.
C
separated from the group several times in June 2008 until leaving for
good and moving to Wisconsin in September 2009. She became depressed and
attempted suicide in 2011. Her brother, also formerly part of the
fellowship, confronted her. She then told him about the abuse.
Community on its own
The story of both girls, told in the charges, has rocked the normally quiet community near Minnesota’s eastern border.
From
his carefully kept house, Jay Gault would sometimes see women and girls
across the dirt road, in the camp property’s woods, tapping trees for
maple syrup.
But when he would go get his mail, they would scatter, said Gault, 61. “They’d go back in the woods. They wouldn’t look at you.”
In
an area where drivers wave when passing one another, neighbors noticed
that the people at the camp “kept to themselves,” as several put it.
Dick
Bowser, who recently retired from East Central Energy, said the church
wouldn’t let power company or fire department employees on the property —
“and when they did let you in, they watched you very closely.”
“It was strange,” Bowser said.
The men sometimes left to do carpentry or construction work,
but “you didn’t see the women very much,” he said. Bowser, 60, lives
down the road, but even from that distance, he’d hear them, faintly,
chanting and singing.
Then,
a few years ago, the camp cleared out. Gault noticed that businesses
affiliated with the congregation — a construction company among them —
suddenly closed, as well. Then word came about the alleged sexual abuse.
“It’s been the buzz around here,” Gault said, shaking his head.
“I
didn’t expect it to be anything good that was going on down there,”
Bowser said. “But I certainly didn’t expect what it’s looking like it’s
turning out to be.”
Worried for her sisters
Now 27, Tornambe said life is still an adjustment.
The
criminal complaints say that Pine County sheriff’s investigator Matt
Ludwig told “B’s” parents about the abuse in June 2012 and that her
mother “did not want to hear it.”
Her father agreed to speak with Ludwig, explaining that he allowed his daughter to live away from them because she seemed happy.
He
described the “atmosphere in the congregation and said it is a very
powerful force to face the idea of losing everything — family, home,
friends, business and being cast out of the church — if you do not go along with what Barnard wants you to do,” according to the charges.
B’s
father recalled Barnard coming to him and rationalizing his having sex
with the girls. The father “felt pressured to not say anything,” the
complaint continued. “[The father] said he did not know what he was
thinking at the time but just remembers feeling so much pressure to not
become an outcast and lose everything he had.”
Tornambe
has had bouts of depression where she considered suicide, she said. She
physically hurt herself, she said, feeling that actual pain was better
than trying to confront her emotional pain.
“For
so many years it seemed like I’d never have the chance to … even know
who I was … we didn’t really have a chance to think for ourselves,” she
said. “We were told what time to get up, what time to go to bed, what we
were eating, when we were going to sew.”
Tornambe
decided to speak out publicly, she said, to try to stop Barnard. Her
mother and two sisters are still involved with him, she said. She hopes
telling her story will help other victims, too, she said.
“I definitely don’t want Victor hurting anyone else.”
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